Penelope Chrisman Paulley, affectionately known as Penny, passed away peacefully on April 12, 2025, at the age of 84 in Traverse City, Michigan. Born on December 29, 1940, in Glen Ellyn, Illinois, Penny lived a life full of love, laughter, and a deep commitment to her community and family.
Penny's journey in life was marked by her dedication to caring for those in need. As a registered nurse, she spent countless hours tending to the sick and offering comfort to those in distress. Her passion for care led her to establish the Crystal Penny home care service, a venture that touched many lives in the community.
She was a member of the Daughters of the King of the Episcopal Church. Her commitment to her community was further exemplified through her active involvement with organizations such as PEO, the Old Mission Women's Club, and the Old Mission Congregational Church. Penny also hosted "Stitch & Bitch" gatherings, where she enjoyed conversation and humor while keeping up with what was going on.
Penny's sharp wit was legendary. She had a way of making everyone laugh with her cutting/direct sense of humor. Her warmth and caring shone through in everything she did, from cooking delicious meals to offering help whenever it was needed.
Penny was predeceased by her parents, Robert and Bonnie West, her brother Robert West Jr., and her husbands, Daniel Martin and Damon Paulley. She is survived by her loving children, Philip and Wendy Martin, Granddaughters Savannah and Laura, Great grandchildren Reign and Ronin, along with her cherished cats, Rafiki and Sadie.
A memorial service celebrating Penny's life will be held at the Old Mission Congregational Church, located at 18687 Mission Rd, Old Mission, MI 49673, on April 26th at 10:30 AM. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to an animal charity of your choice in Penny's honor.
Another memorial service will be held this summer at her home. The date and time is not yet set.
Penny's life was a testament to the power of kindness, community, and a well-timed punchline. She will be dearly missed but fondly remembered by all who were lucky enough to know her.